1.Grief does give a strange, unwelcome power to the griever, and adults defer to Emilia's loss, keeping a safe distance in various ways.
悲恸确实会让悲恸者莫名其妙的变得不受欢迎，成年人能够体会伊米莉亚痛失所爱的心情，尽量用不同的方法和她保持安全距离。
2.We have a very simple belief that everyone involved in a porce is a griever.
我们有一个简单的指导思想，即离婚事件里涉及的每一人都值得同情。